Something to say to people who were interested in working with you but never pulled the trigger:
“I’m always curious why people decide I’m a fit or not a fit for them. Is there any particular reason you’re hesitating? Or anything that would make it a no brainer for us to work together? No pressure - I’m just genuinely interested because it helps me to better understand how best I can serve people.
“I could NEVER do that.”
“I don’t think I could do that.”
“I guess I could try it.”
“Maybe I’ll try it again.”
“I did it!”
“I bet I could do it again.”
“I did it again!”
“Maybe I can teach someone else how to do it.”
“I don’t feel like doing it any more.”
“Maybe I could do something else?”
“Nah, I could NEVER do that.”
And round and round it goes…
“There was no one else like them, except for everybody.”
Chuck Klosterman wrote that line to describe author Elizabeth Wurtzel and Mark Leyner in his book The Nineties.
I’m not really familiar with either, but I love the concept.
Successful artists have a unique ability to express things many feel, but few can express.
Make a list of things you can buy for $50 or less that will make your life easier, simpler, or more enjoyable on an ongoing basis.
Then buy them.
A few examples:
A nice glass to drink water out of instead of plastic bottles.
A super comfortable piece of clothing (t-shirt, socks, pajamas, etc).
A new towel to use after a shower.
A hook to put on your wall so you have a specific place to hang a hat or something else that currently doesn’t have a set place.